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Cancer and Independence:

Cancer is an astrological sign that is packed full of contradictions, so when it comes to independence, they can be both independent and co-dependent. On one side, they have the perseverance and drive to do what needs to be done, they are self-sufficient and do not need to depend on other people for the material and physical things in life. On the other hand, they depend on people for emotional support and encouragement. A Cancer that is not fully self-actualized will need the constant support of others and will not be very independent, but the Cancer that is 'evolved' and has properly harnessed their emotional issues will be wildly successful as an independent human being. They crave attention and comfort from other people and they are happiest when they have a small, close knit group of friends or family.

Cancer and Friendship:

Cancer is extremely loyal to those who appreciate and support them, they are the nurturer of the zodiac and will protect and cherish the person for a long time. One of the greatest things about Cancer is their ability to make others feel good about themselves and loved. This is a positive cycle because in making others feel nurtured, wanted and loved, they feel good for paying it forward. Other people can lean on and depend on cancer, they will listen to people's problems and help them however, they will rarely express their own deep feelings to anyone. People who want to share deep emotional thoughts and opinions with a Cancer might feel that the scales are tipped on one side as Cancer will rarely reveal it's true deep feelings. A friend of Cancer is usually a lifelong devoted friend that can be trusted.

Cancer and Business:

Once Cancer resolves their emotional issues such as shyness and insecurity, their powerful character will shine though and there is practically nothing they can't do. They have incredible perseverance and will stand up for what they believe in. With their strong intuition, sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything they undertake. They are excellent business people and investors because of their intuitive and psychic ability and because of their creative forward thinking mind, they are able to predict future trends. They attract wealth and know where to invest. Money and financial well being is very important to Cancer and this can help their drive in business. They need financial security and if they allow themselves to properly focus their energy, and do not allow their emotions to over take them, then they are more than capable of obtaining their financial goals and being incredibly successful business people.

Cancer Temperament:

They are complex, fragile, unpredictable and temperamental and need constant support and encouragement. More than any other astrology signs, a Cancer needs to be needed. Even when all needs are satisfied, they can be irritable and cranky. They have an uneasy, delicate temperament. The contradictory nature of Cancer gives their temperament the wild mood swings and possible temper tantrums. They are easily offended and will sulk and wallow in self pity for a long time when they get hurt.

Cancer Deep Inside:

It is difficult for a Cancer to open up and have a close emotionally fulfilled relationship with someone because they are so closed off emotionally and physically to the world. This is driven by their fear of trust. Cancer has a difficult time trusting people. This causes built up anger and resentment and their contradictory nature really takes a toll on them. They can have a negative outlook on life, thinking that life is just too hard and miserable. This is unfortunate because when good experiences are to be had, they are skeptical of people and their surroundings and they run the risk of missing the nice things and happy experiences in life that make it worth living. In addition to lack of trust in people, Cancer is deeply sensitive and easily hurt, this is another reason why they have their defense shell in place, to avoid being hurt by others.

Cancer lives in the past. They hold past events close to them and often dwell on the past. They have to learn to let go and live in the present instead of spending their time being sick with nostalgia. Cancer has a lot of emotional issues to deal with but once they overcome this large hump of shyness and insecurity, there is practically nothing they can't do. With their strong intuition, sensitivity, powers of observation and intelligence, they will have great success in anything they undertake.


Cancer is constantly feeling, feelings and emotions are hallmarks of this sign and this is the root of their problems. They are the ones who have to cope with their strong feelings more so then any other sign. Harmony is very important to Cancer, it keeps them happy. Conflict of any kind causes great distress. Deep inside, Cancer is a very powerful sign, they have the ability to stand up for what they think is right and they have lots of perseverance and can be fine on their own, provided they don't let their emotions get the better of them and they have the stability they need. They are not fond of change but they have the ability to do what needs to be done. They are also not pushovers or lazy people.